Monday, November 10, 2008

New Links

Today, I am in good mood to update my Blog. So I browsed through Internet Explorer to get an idea on what topics should I mentioned in this blog. Suddenly, I remembered what my Head of Department mentioned previously, that I should look for any information related to basic counseling skills. Then, I found this one of the interesting blog discussing on basic counseling skills. I would like to share with all of you who viewed my blog. The address as stated below:

You can just click at the link or you can click through my sidebars "Just One Click"...
I found that this blog or webpage is very interesting. It mentioned and discussed about basic counseling skills. It is one good idea from the author. I hope that other people or counselor that have such knowledge can share with others. Thank You.

Monday, September 22, 2008

TODAY...(22nd September 2008)

Hmm...Today I still fell a little bit of tired due to the last Saturday program...SHOPPING.... Last Saturday experience taught me to plan my journey way before I went shopping. When I went to Sogo, i see there are so many people there. Some of them went with couple, some with family, and even some with their little children. I even saw some of them take a rest at a corner at Sogo, and their children lay down sleeping. This situation remind my of so many things. Usually, during this time, many parents lost their kids. And this situation happens almost every year.

Suddenly I remember my experience during childhood. During my time, I have never went shopping for Eid celebration with my parents. Usually, my mother will take my shirt size and just went only with my father. My parents rather to leave their children cried at home. To them, it is much better to let the children at home compared they cried when realized that they have lost their children. they usually said to us, prevention is better than cure. I believed that it was not practiced by my parents, but most of parents during that time have this kind of thinking.

I believe that it is true, prevention is better than cure. Why?For me, even though u can fix or cure a thing, it will never be the same as before. For example, a male kid broke his hand after felt from a bicycle. Even though his hand can be cure, but his hand will never be the same. His hand flexibility may never be the same. That is why even in Islamic or logically, "PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE".

So do you agree with me or not?.. Do not hesitate to give your comments or suggestion..i will be waiting to read your reply..TQ...

20th September 2008

Last Saturday, I went for shopping with my fiance. I went to Sogo Kuala Lumpur. At first, I drove and planned to park my car at Semua House parking. But when I enter Kuala Lumpur, suddenly I felt really stressed. There are so many cars there and the traffic was actually jammed. Thus I decided to park my car at Titiwangsa LRT station. That decision was made after I have been in the traffic jammed for about more than an hour.

At that time I realized, if I have planned my journey well, then I wouldn't been wasted so much time in my car. With that precious time, I can go and buy several things for my Eid celebration. Besides, I can reduced my stress in which, I get when I walking. It was not only the traffic was jammed. But there are also jammed inside the shopping centre. Almost all shops crowded with people. Even, at several shops, to walk for about 50 metres, it actually cost you almost 5 minutes, when in normal occasion it actually on for about 1 minutes.

There are about 8 days remaining in this month of Ramadhan, and I believe there are still many people that have not finished shopping. Thus, my advised is plan your journey well and calculate all the possible things that to give difficult to you while shopping. Furthermore, try to utilized the public transport. I believe that planning can help you reduce your stress, difficultis while shopping and even your money.

So, what do you think? I believe that you guys also have story that can be share. Please do not hesitate to give your comments or opinions. I will be waiting to read comments or suggestions from you guys.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Monday vs Friday....

Assalamualaikum..

It's has been a while since the last time I updated this blog...so today I feel like to write something..Actually there are so many thing that I want to share, but I think I start with what I have in my mind...

Hmmm....Many people says that Monday is the day that they want to avoid...some even say that if there is no Monday in the calendar, it will be Great...In other words, when Monday is coming, some people will be unmotivated. less mood and so on so forth...Yet, when come Friday, some people will feel really energetic and full with motivation...Why?..For example :


It is one of funny videos that I get from my friend...so what do you think? On Monday, are you feel like the polar bear? and on Friday evening, are you feel like the penguin? This situation reflect all level of people either students or working people...

I like to say that this situation is related with our motivation...if we are highly motivated person, we will not becoming like the polar bear...we will always be like the penguin everyday...no matter what is the day...Monday or Friday, we will always be energetic...but if we are not motivated enough, we easily becoming like the polar bear especially on Monday and also other thing that we does not like to do...

Are you agree with me?so why don't you give your comments, stories or opinion?...I really hope that we can share stories or opinions...TQ

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

4 SONS (just a merely joke)

These 4 gents go out to play golf one sunny morning. One is detained in the clubhouse, and the other three are discussing their children while walking to the first tee.

"My son Kent," says one, "has made quite a name for himself in the home-building industry. He began as a carpenter, but now owns his own design and construction firm. He's so successful in fact, in the last year he was able to give a good friend a brand new home as a gift."

The second man, no to be out done, tells how his son began his career as a car salesman, but now owns a multi-line dealership. "Norm's so successful, in fact, in the last six months he gave his friend two brand new cars as a gift."

The third man's son, Greg, has worked his way up through a stock brokerage, and in the last few weeks has given a good friend a large stock portfolio as a gift. As the fourth man arrives at the tee, another tells him that they have been discussing their progeny and asks what line his son is in.

"To tell the truth, I'm not very pleased with how my son turned out," he replies. "For 15 years, Chico's been a hairdresser, and I've just recently discovered he's gay. However, on the bright side, he must be good at what he does because his last three boyfriends have given him a brand new house, two cars, and a big pile of stock certificates."

This is just a merely joke...I believe that in our life, we need to fill it with humors or jokes..Insya-Allah through it, our life can be more happy and relaxs..Moreover, for me, humors and jokes also can be consider as one of the stress management...Don't you think so?...Why don't you give your comment?...TQ...

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

PERANGKAP TIKUS

Sepasang suami dan isteri petani pulang kerumah setelah berbelanja. Ketika mereka membuka barang belanjaan, seekor tikus memperhatikan gelagat sambil menggumam "hmmm...makanan apa lagi yang dibawa mereka dari pasar??"Ternyata yang dibeli oleh petani hari adalah perangkap tikus.Sang tikus naik panic bukan kepalang.Ia bergegas lari ke sarang dan bertempik, " Ada perangkap tikus dirumah....di rumah sekarang ada perangkap tikus...."

Ia pun mengadu kepada ayam dan berteriak, " Ada perangkat tikus !"Sang Ayam berkata, " Tuan Tikus ! Aku turut bersedih tapi ia tak adakena-mengena dengan aku.”Sang Tikus lalu pergi menemui seekor Kambing sambil berteriak seperti tadi.Sang Kambing pun jawab selamba, “Aku pun turut bersimpati.. .tapi tidak adayang boleh aku buat. Lagi pun tak tak ada kena-mengena dengan aku. "Tikus lalu menemui Sapi. Ia mendapat jawaban sama. " Maafkan aku. Tapiperangkap tikus tidak berbahaya buat aku sama sekali. Tak kanlah sebesaraku ni boleh masuk perangkap tikus. "Dengan rasa kecewa ia pun berlari ke hutan menemui Ular. Sang ular berkata" Eleh engkau ni...Perangkap Tikus yang sekecil tak kan la nak membahayakanaku.”
Akhirnya Sang Tikus kembali kerumah dengan pasrah kerana mengetahui ia akan menghadapi bahaya seorang diri.

Suatu malam, pemilik rumah terbangun mendengar suara berdetak perangkaptikusnya berbunyi menandakan umpan dah mengena. Ketika melihat perangkaptikusnya, ternyata seekor ular berbisa yang jadi mangsa. Buntut ular yangterperangkap membuat ular semakin ganas dan menyerang isteri pemilik rumah.Walaupun si Suami sempat membunuh ular berbisa tersebut, isterinya tidaksempat diselamatkan.Si suami pun membawa isterinya kerumah sakit.

Beberapa hari kemudianisterinya sudah boleh pulang namun tetap sahaja demam. Isterinya lalu minta dibuatkan sup cakar ayam oleh suaminya kerana percayasup cakar ayam boleh mengurangkan demam. Tanpa berfikir panjang si Suamipun dengan segera menyembelih ayamnya untuk dapat cakar buat sup.Beberapa hari kemudian sakitnya tidak kunjung reda. Seorang temanmenyarankan untuk makan hati kambing. Ia lalu menyembelih kambingnya untukmengambil hatinya.Masih juga isterinya tidak sembuh-sembuh dan akhirnyameninggal dunia. Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’un.

Banyak sungguh orang datang melawat jenazahnya. Kerana rasa sayang suamipada isterinya, tak sampai hati pula dia melihat orang ramai tak dijamuapa-apa. Tanpa berfikir panjang dia pun menyembelih sapinya untuk memberimakan orang-orang yang berziarah.Dari kejauhan...Sang Tikus menatap dengan penuh kesedihan. Beberapa harikemudian ia melihat Perangkap Tikus tersebut sudah tidak digunakan lagi.

SUATU HARI….KETIKA ANDA MENDENGAR SESEORANG DALAM KESUSAHAN DAN MENGIRA ITU BUKAN URUSAN ANDA... FIKIRKANLAH SEKALI LAGI.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

BijAksANA

Seorang guru, Cikgu Murni (Umur: 22) menghadapi masalah dengan salah seorang muridnya (Abu). Lalu guru ini bertanya kepada murid tersebut : "Apa sebenarnya masalah awak, Abu?"Lalu Abu menjawab, "Saya terlalu cerdik untuk berada di darjah 4,kakak saya menduduki UPSR dan saya lebih cerdik dari dia, maka saya seharusnya berada di tempat yang sama juga!".

Cikgu Murni dah tak tertahan. Dia bawa Abu ke pejabat pengetua. Sementara Abu menunggu di ruang tamu, Cikgu Murni terangkan keadaan tersebut kepada pengetua. Pengetua mengatakan yang dia akan berikan ujian kepada Abu dan jika Abu gagal menjawab, maka Abu harus kekal di darjah 3 dan berkelakuan baik. Abu dibawa masuk ke pejabat Pengetua dan Cikgu Murni terangkan pada Abu dan Abu bersetuju untuk ambil ujian yang akan diberikan.

Pengetua: Apa 3 x 3?
Abu: 9
Pengetua: Apa 6 x 6?
Abu: 36

Pengetua terus bertanyakan soalan2 berdasarkan tahap pencapaian murid2 UPSR dan si Abu mampu menjawab tiap soalan yang diberikan. Lalu pengetua memandang Cikgu Murni dan berkata, "Saya rasa murid ini sepatutnya berada di darjah 6", Lalu Cikgu Murni berkata pada pengetua, "Saya ada soalan saya sendiri, boleh tak saya ajukan pada Abu?". Pengetua dan Abu bersetuju.

Cikgu Murni: Apa yang lembu ada 4 di badan, tapi saya cuma ada dua?

Abu: (berfikir) Kaki

Cikgu Murni: Apa yang ada di dalam seluar kamu tapi tidak pada seluar saya?

Abu: Saku

Cikgu Murni: Apa yang bermula dengan huruf "K" akhir dengan "A",ianya berbulu, berbentuk oval, nyaman dan mengandungi lapisan nipis keputihan?

Abu: Kelapa

Cikgu Murni: Apakah yang masuk keras dan berwarna "pink", bila keluar lembik dan melekit?
Mata Pengetua terbuka luas dan sebelum sempat dia menahan, si Abu terus menjawab.

Abu: Gula-gula getah (Bubblegum)

Cikgu Murni: Apa yang mereka lakukan, lelaki secara berdiri, wanita secara duduk dan anjing secara tiga kaki?

Mata Pengetua sekali lagi terbuka sangat2 luas dan sebelum dia sempat hendak menahan si Abu terus menjawab.

Abu: Bersalaman

Cikgu Murni: Baik, sekarang saya akan ajukan soalan berbentuk siapakah saya, okay?

Abu: Baik Cikgu

Cikgu Murni: Awak memasukkan batang kedalam saya. Awak ikat saya untuk saya berdiri. Saya kebasahan sebelum awak.

Pengetua kelihatan resah dengan soalan yang diajukan oleh Cikgu Murni.

Abu: Khemah

Cikgu Murni: Jari memasuki saya. Awak menggesel-gesel saya bila awak teringatkan saya. Lelaki idaman akan mendapat saya dulu.

Pengetua semakin resah dan tidak selesa. Lantas terus meneguk segelas Nescafe 3in1.

Abu: Cincin perkahwinan

Cikgu Murni: "Saya ada bermacam-macam saiz. Bila saya sakit saya akan meleleh. Bila saya keluar, banyak tisu yang akan digunakan. Bila awak hembuskan saya, akan berasa lega." Sekali lagi pengetua rasa amat resah dengan soalan yang di ajukan oleh Cikgu Murni dan ingin membantah, tapi si Abu mendahuluinya.

Abu: Hidung

Cikgu Murni: Saya batang yang keras. Hujungnya tajam. Saya akan datang dan masuk dengan lajunya.

Abu: Anak panah

Cikgu Murni: Sekarang saya akan ajukan soalan dalam Bahasa Inggeris, okay?

Abu: Okay

Cikgu Murni: What word starts with a 'F' and end in 'K' that means lot of heat and excitement?
Abu: Firetruck

Cikgu Murni: What word starts with a 'F' and ends in 'K' & if you don't get it you have to use your hand.

Abu: Fork

Cikgu Murni: What is it that all men have one of. It's longer on somemen than on others, the pope does not use his, and a man gives it to his wifeafter they are married?

Abu: Surname

Cikgu Murni: What part of the man has no bones but has muscles, lots of veins and loves pumping?

Abu: Heart

Pengetua menghembuskan nafas kelegaan bila mendengar jawapan yang diberikan oleh si Abu, lantas berkata "Baik hantar murid ini ke Universiti Malaya; jawapan yang saya fikirkan semuanya salah".


P/s: Jika jawapan anda semua salah, anda adalah sama spesies dengan pengetua yang mempunyai pemikiran kuning.....hehehe

Thursday, May 15, 2008

new world!!!

fuh..when i look at the world nowadays, i feel stunned...there are so many gadgets that has been developed and created by many people...it is truely far different compare to my chilhood era... even though i'm only at middle 20's, yet i'm sometimes a little bit backdated compared to many teenagers nowadays...today, they can get and explore so many gadgets compared to my time as teenager...even teenagers at my village also sometimes are more advanced in gadgets compared to me...am i slow and backdated or they are the one who is too updated?...

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

WHO AM I?

Assalamualaikum...

Firstly let me introduce myself...as least you guys know who i am...

Well, my name Saaiful Azhar bin Jamil...I was born at Kuala Lumpur Hospital on 26th March 1982..then I was sent by my parents to Temerloh, Pahang to live with my grandma.. In other words, I was grew up at Temerloh, Pahang..

I live with my grandma for 17 years in which until I finish my Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia (SPM)... list of my schools are :
1. Tadika Kemas
2. Sekolah Rendah Kebangsaan Jalan Bahagia, Temerloh Pahang.
3. Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Temerloh (1 month)
4. Sekolah Menengah Agama Al-Khairiah, Temerloh Pahang.

After I finished my SPM, I went to Matriculation Center of International Islamic University Malaysia. I did my bachelor degree in Psychology...

Actually, there are many thing happens when I grew up but, maybe we can share it later...

ADIOS AMIGOS!!!

Friday, January 25, 2008

WELCOME TO MY SITE'S....

ASSALAMUALAIKUM...

welcome to ZaHa-Ry SitE...hope u will enjoy with what i will post here...